Next steps

How would I go about it?

First you contact an adoption agency; either your local authority adoption team or an approved voluntary agency (try looking in Yellow Pages). The process that follows will include a thorough assessment and some training, often in groups with other prospective adopters to help prepare you for adoption. On your course you will learn about what adoption involves and the kinds of children who need new families. You may also have the opportunity to meet with foster carers, experienced adopters, birth parents and adopted adults who will share their experiences with you. It might take anything from six to eighteen months to progress from initial enquiry to being matched with a child; and sometimes, finding a child who really fits into your family and your life takes longer.

Would I get any help?

Adoptive families often need extra support at the start of their new life together or later on. The services available include advice and information, counselling, financial support and help with getting benefits. Just like any parent, you will be expected to meet the general costs of raising a child. Sometimes though, means-tested financial assistance is given to families caring for a child with particular needs, or to help make it possible for siblings to stay together.

Maybe it’s time to find out more

To find out how to get in touch with your local authority adoption team or an approved voluntary adoption agency, use the BAAF agency database.